Welcome
If you are looking for guidance and a soft place to land after losing or leaving your faith, you have come to the right place. I spent nearly four decades as a Christian fundamentalist before becoming a None (one who now claims no religious affiliation). I understand the confusion, anger, and loss - and also the incredible potential you have for building a healthy new secular life. From workshops to webinars to one-on-one coaching, I can help you.
Workshops
Have you left a fundamentalist or authoritarian religion behind? Where you once had structure, purpose, and a close-knit community, do you now find yourself alone, wondering what happened – and what comes next?
If your answer is YES,
this workshop is for you.
Much like a marital divorce, Divorcing Religion can be painful, confusing, and exhausting – with the added burden of isolation. The grief experienced when leaving fundamentalism is compounded by a lack of support and understanding.
Developed by a formerly devout fundamentalist evangelical Christian of over 40 years, Divorcing Religion is an on-line, live, interactive 6-week workshop designed to help you transition out of religion and into secular life.
The next workshop begins:
July 11th, 2021
The Workshop
WELCOME to the Divorcing Religion Workshop, a 6-module course to help you explore where you came from, where you are now, and where you want to be. Just like the end of a marriage, divorce from your once-loved religion feels painful, exhausting, and confusing. The loss and grief are real. The good news is, just like there is life after marital divorce, there is also life after Divorcing Religion - and it can be a life more authentic and rewarding than you have ever experienced.
As with romantic divorce, there are stages to Divorcing Religion, which I have broken down over 6 weeks:
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BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO: Realizing It's Over - This module challenges you to accept what has occurred so that you can begin to build your new life.
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UNCOMFORTABLY NUMB: Grieving Your Losses - This module encourages you to acknowledge and explore your losses, in order to grieve and grow.
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SEPARATION AGREEMENT: Healthy Boundaries - This module encourages you to gain clarity on what you have left behind and what you are willing to accept in your new life.
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GETTING ALONG WITH YOURSELF & YOUR EX:
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Part A - Identity Reconstruction - This part is designed to move you from spiritual refugee to bold adventurer.
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Part B - Integrating Your Losses - This part gets you acquainted with the very helpful cognitive tool of reframing, helping you further finalize your divorce and move on to your healthy new life.
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PLENTY OF FISH: Finding & Building Your New Communities - This module looks at developing intentional communities to make your new life functional and enjoyable.
BONUS MODULE -
MIND CONTROL: Don't Let an Old Flame Burn You Twice - This module looks at ensuring that you don't fall prey to fundamentalist thinking again.
